Do you need to be loved to love yourself?

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We are all familiar with the phrase: “You must first love yourself before you can love another”. There seems to be a lot of sense in it. Yet, we also know that being loved by another helps you to love yourself. …

How can you avoid abuse in Tantra?

from Buddhadharma Magazine

One thing that always upsets me is abuse. Abuse is when someone takes advantage of another person who is in a more vulnerable position. They abuse their power over someone else. There are many forms of misuse of power in …

How could tantric massage boost your relationship?

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I used to think Tantric Massage was only for professionals who want to offer sexological bodywork to clients for a living. However, then I discovered it has another incredible potential that not so many people consider. It is an absolutely amazing …

What a woman needs to know before booking a tantric massage

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Tantric massage is becoming a big thing. For men, the ubiquitous “happy ending massage” has been around in many societies for a long time, though mostly for relief of built-up sexual tension rather than any kind of tantric experience. So …

Can you be TOO open?

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There seems to be a part within all of us that longs to open up more. Whether we desire a more open and flexible body, or to feel more courageous and do new things. Possibly you wish you took more …

How can you create a peaceful relationship?

Peaceful relationships

Many people in the world are waking up and becoming more conscious. Every year I return to the West and am delighted to see more yoga, more recycling, more meditation and so on weaving its way into the mainstream. As …


Raising Kundalini: Raising heaven or raising hell?

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Kundalini. The buzz word in tantric circles. Kundalini refers to a powerful life force energy that awakens from the root of the spine, can rise to the crown of the head and above, and animates a person into an embodiment …


Claiming the joy of a tantric lifestyle

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(taken from a post I made on Facebook…it got so many likes and comments that I thought I would repost it here) I have a very enjoyable life. It’s not because I’ve got lots of money. It’s not because someone …


Could Orgasmic Energy cure Diseases?

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We always think of orgasm bringing us pleasure, and many cultures are trained to think of pleasure as something we should feel guilty about. We are often cultured to think of pleasure as selfish, indulgent and serving little purpose other …


How it feels when my energy body becomes activated


I’m having some sort of epic kundalini activation…it kept me awake many hours! (The die-hard optimist in me is hoping that all of my strange blood circulation symptoms this past month were just a part of this re-calibration!) I feel …