What a woman needs to know before booking a tantric massage

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Tantric massage is becoming a big thing. For men, the ubiquitous “happy ending massage” has been around in many societies for a long time, though mostly for relief of built-up sexual tension rather than any kind of tantric experience. So …

Radical Honesty or Deluding Yourself?

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There is a concept circulating around the Tantra scene right now; and I roll my eyes every time I hear it. Radical honesty. It’s a wonderful-sounding concept. The idea is that one should be totally honest and not be concerned about what …

Can you be TOO open?

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There seems to be a part within all of us that longs to open up more. Whether we desire a more open and flexible body, or to feel more courageous and do new things. Possibly you wish you took more …

How can you create a peaceful relationship?

Peaceful relationships

Many people in the world are waking up and becoming more conscious. Every year I return to the West and am delighted to see more yoga, more recycling, more meditation and so on weaving its way into the mainstream. As …


Raising Kundalini: Raising heaven or raising hell?

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Kundalini. The buzz word in tantric circles. Kundalini refers to a powerful life force energy that awakens from the root of the spine, can rise to the crown of the head and above, and animates a person into an embodiment …


Claiming the joy of a tantric lifestyle

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(taken from a post I made on Facebook…it got so many likes and comments that I thought I would repost it here) I have a very enjoyable life. It’s not because I’ve got lots of money. It’s not because someone …

Could Orgasmic Energy cure Diseases?

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We always think of orgasm bringing us pleasure, and many cultures are trained to think of pleasure as something we should feel guilty about. We are often cultured to think of pleasure as selfish, indulgent and serving little purpose other …


How it feels when my energy body becomes activated


I’m having some sort of epic kundalini activation…it kept me awake many hours! (The die-hard optimist in me is hoping that all of my strange blood circulation symptoms this past month were just a part of this re-calibration!) I feel …

Are you Falling in Love in your Tantra Workshop?

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It is easy to fall in love in the Tantra world. Several times a day. Being caressed by a deeply present person. Eye gazing for endless minutes.Sitting in yab-yum with your bodies pressed up close feeling every breath.  Moving energy …


How can tantric orgasm help you stay young?


When I first entered Tantra I was 23 years young, and I  must admit that I was not so concerned about longevity. Now, as I embrace entering my 40’s (how did that happen?!) I am grateful to be practicing techniques …