How can tantric orgasm help you stay young?


When I first entered Tantra I was 23 years young, and I  must admit that I was not so concerned about longevity. Now, as I embrace entering my 40’s (how did that happen?!) I am grateful to be practicing techniques …


The Orgasmic Nature of Existence

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I have written several articles about how the experience is to be in pure darkness for a solid week. However, I have not yet written about how the experience is to come out into the light after such a week. …


Meeting the Dark Goddess

In classical Tantra and Hinduism there is a wild dark goddess known as Kali Ma. She is often depicted dancing on Shiva’s corpse, swords in her hands and a wreath of bleeding heads around her neck. In Tantra she is …


Is God Actually Pure Darkness?

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I have just emerged from a week-long retreat in pure darkness 24 hours a day, which I co-facilitated with a shamanic healer called Luca Firewolf. During the retreat we followed some of the methods from Vigyan Bhairav Tantra, a Tantric …


What Helps You Through Dark Times?

Last week I posted about a friend who took his own life during challenging times in his life. Since that post, many people have shared with me that they too have suffered huge challenging dark moments in their life, even suicidal …


Tips to Find the Tantric Touch


Tantra is a path of embodied spirituality. That means it is concerned with how we can live our True Nature? How can we embody Love? How can we be in alignment…all the way from sex to super-consciousness? How can we …


The Shiva Shakti Confusion

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Tantra is a path that works with dualities in order to find unity consciousness. The duality of Shiva and Shakti is a principle to help us find the highest form of the masculine and feminine…however it can also trip us up. When we start to confuse the terms with all things masculine and feminine or with men and women themselves, we lose this precious spiritual vehicle of transcendence and can fall instead into confusion….


How Can the Darkness Awaken You?

Many spiritual and shamanic traditions have used meditations in pitch darkness as a method of healing, transformation and awakening. How can this simple technique be a catalyst of transformation? If we take a look at the chemistry of the brain …


Darkness: Return to the Source

I have chosen a life of adventure. I have stayed with tribes in longhouses in the jungle, trekked across deserts on camelback, slept in caves, camped for weeks on uninhabited islands…all of which have brought much richness to my life …


Desire: Awakening or Addiction?

Tantra is sometimes known as the path of awakening through desire. Unlike many paths which seek to suppress or avoid desire in order to awaken, Tantra gives methods to awaken through desire. Note: Tantra gives methods. It is not enough …