What Helps You Through Dark Times?

Last week I posted about a friend who took his own life during challenging times in his life. Since that post, many people have shared with me that they too have suffered huge challenging dark moments in their life, even suicidal …


Tantra Not Trauma: Is it Safe to Open?

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Tantra is a bold and brave path. By its very nature, it embraces areas of our life that normally we would avoid or suppress. This is part of the healing of Tantra…to be able to embrace what has been blocked. …


How can Liver Cleansing Effect your Sexual Energy?


You may never have considered that the state of your liver can have an effect on your sexuality. However, In Taoism and Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM), it has long been known that the liver controls the flow of sexual energy, …


What blocks your process of transformation?

I live a large amount of my life in workshops. Teaching them and attending them…I like to experience it from both sides! I am constantly fascinated by the whole process of transformation…after all, that is why we even go to …


Tips to Find the Tantric Touch


Tantra is a path of embodied spirituality. That means it is concerned with how we can live our True Nature? How can we embody Love? How can we be in alignment…all the way from sex to super-consciousness? How can we …


Love, Fear, Relating

Beloved Lover, There are fears deep within me. Let those fears not create controlling patterns. May I not create a contract based upon bonds of fear, turning our relationship into a bondage of limitation. But rather may I find empowered …


Entering the Gateway of Fear

Remember a time in your life when you reached a moment that was like a doorway that said “Fear” on it? A moment where you became shaky and energy started to bubble in the depths of your belly…. What did …


Opening a Woman

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Everywhere I go on the Tantra scene, I find the same phenomenon: a handful of men who are proudly proclaiming to be  “opening women up”. What this usually means is that they are offering women yoni massage (sexual massage) and …


Five things you need to know if you want to teach Tantra

Are you a conscious-living individual who is looking for the empowerment to facilitate Sexual Awakening, Tao Sexual Arts or Tantra through workshops? Most of us grew up with a sexual education that was confusing, contradictory or even completely lacking. Often …