Do you need to be loved to love yourself?

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We are all familiar with the phrase: “You must first love yourself before you can love another”. There seems to be a lot of sense in it. Yet, we also know that being loved by another helps you to love yourself. …

How could tantric massage boost your relationship?

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I used to think Tantric Massage was only for professionals who want to offer sexological bodywork to clients for a living. However, then I discovered it has another incredible potential that not so many people consider. It is an absolutely amazing …

What a woman needs to know before booking a tantric massage

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Tantric massage is becoming a big thing. For men, the ubiquitous “happy ending massage” has been around in many societies for a long time, though mostly for relief of built-up sexual tension rather than any kind of tantric experience. So …

How can you create a peaceful relationship?

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Many people in the world are waking up and becoming more conscious. Every year I return to the West and am delighted to see more yoga, more recycling, more meditation and so on weaving its way into the mainstream. As …


Could Orgasmic Energy cure Diseases?

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We always think of orgasm bringing us pleasure, and many cultures are trained to think of pleasure as something we should feel guilty about. We are often cultured to think of pleasure as selfish, indulgent and serving little purpose other …


How it feels when my energy body becomes activated


I’m having some sort of epic kundalini activation…it kept me awake many hours! (The die-hard optimist in me is hoping that all of my strange blood circulation symptoms this past month were just a part of this re-calibration!) I feel …


How can tantric orgasm help you stay young?


When I first entered Tantra I was 23 years young, and I  must admit that I was not so concerned about longevity. Now, as I embrace entering my 40’s (how did that happen?!) I am grateful to be practicing techniques …


Can a Broken Heart Teach us Unconditional Love?

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“This broken heart is your invitation to learn unconditional love, honey” the psychic informed me. “What? I have to learn unconditional love by letting him go? But I want to learn it by loving and being loved by him” I …


How can Grief open your Heart?

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I remember the day that I realised that grief is a form of love. I was walking in Yoyogi Park in Tokyo and I received a message that a dear friend had died in childbirth. After some moments of shock …


What is Tantric Energetic Orgasm?

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Last night I experienced a mind-blowing full-body orgasmic experience that took me all the way into higher realms; known as “skydancing” in Tantra…and all without even taking off any clothes! I was being lightly caressed and lovingly held by several …