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Seven good reasons NOT to live with your lover!

Seven good reasons NOT to live with your lover! The Pitfalls of Cohabitation and Codependency You meet. You date. You kiss. You become lovers. You move in together… Right?mostly we don’t even question this common sequence of events. If a …

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The natural completion of a relationship

When a relationship ends people often ask “what went wrong?” Why is it we have this cultural belief than an ending is wrong? Do we truly believe that everything should last forever? When someone dies do we immediately think ” …

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The Heart of a Woman: a user’s guide

Congratulations on your choice to unite with a woman’s heart. This user manual is here to offer support and guidance of how to operate this mystery, and how to take care of your* Heart of  a Woman. * when we …

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Tantra for Teenagers

I am no authority on teenagers…there are very few in my life. But I was one once, so certainly I have that under my belt. And as I sit on a plane to Greece, I am surrounded by groups of …

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Paradise Calls

What stops you from walking back into Eden? I, woman, am Paradise.  The cicadas’ call is my heart beat; the sun shine radiates through my skin; the waves emerge out of my womb; the moon shines in my soul. What …

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What is Trust?

What is trust? How does it dance with control and surrender? Trust seems to be so inter-tangled with control that often in relating we are imposing control where we think we are building trust. Take a typical example: “I don’t …

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Invitation from Shakti to Shiva

O Divine Masculine I love you and I love your desire to open me I truly want to receive your gift Your divine penetration But I ask for one thing: In order for my true shakti to come and play …

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Creation Myth

Once upon a time there was a huge endless sky that was the size of eternity. He was boundless and had no edges, made of pure Nothingness. And he was pure unchanging consciousness, Heaven. There also was a vast earth …

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Ashamed of Living Fully?

It seems to me that many people are ashamed of living fully. Children just live whatever moves through them, tears, giggles, screams, silence. But soon the adults put a stop to any emotions that they themselves cannot handle. Think about …